Mastery of Motivation!
Getting—and Staying—Motivated by Following
Your Personal Plan
Every one of us, at one point
or another could use an extra dose of motivation. The keys
to staying motivated are as follows: Write goals that tap
into your passions; review those goal regularly; measure and
compare your progress toward your goals; and lastly,
surround yourself with positive influences.
GET CONNECTED TO YOUR
GOALS
What do you really want? What are you working toward in your
work, family, physical and spiritual life? Think big. Choose
one area you want to grow in and work on that.
Short-term "sprints"
toward long-term objectives.
Most professional marathoners don't think about their
races as 26.3-mile runs, they think of them as an
accumulation of smaller sprints (with a dash for the finish
at the end). By breaking down your objectives into smaller
goals, or sprints, you make them more psychologically
attainable, as well as less monumental and massive.
Build your plan
Use your sprints to build a plan that consists of
measurable activities. Write them down on a calendar. By
building your plan and reviewing it regularly, you'll be
able to keep your focus and turn down opportunities that
might otherwise pull you away from your goals.
MEASURE AND COMPARE
You can't improve what you don't measure, so make sure your
sprints are specific and measurable.
You can control
activities, but not results
Sometimes, no matter how closely you have followed your
action plan, you still miss the mark. Why is this? Since
your goals are a stretch for you, you can't envision the
exact outcome. Times like these are when it is most
important to adhere to your plan. If you do, and are
consistent, you'll eventually experience your desired
growth, but in a deeper and more powerful way.
Stay disciplined
By consistently pushing toward your goals, you'll
develop mental muscle memory—the stuff that pulls you
through when sticking to your plan gets tough.
MAKE MOTIVATION YOUR
LIFESTYLE
What are you reading, listening to, and watching? Everything
that you choose to surround yourself with is an influence on
your behavior, so consider your lifestyle.
Calendar events
Plan now to attend positive, goal-affirming events. By
putting events on your calendar in advance, you'll be able
to evaluate last-minute invitations much better and won't be
tempted by every invitation.
Journal
Journaling is key to keeping your life—and plan—in
perspective. In addition to providing time for you to
reflect on each day, it is also an invaluable opportunity to
gain a true perspective on yourself. After a year or two,
you'll be able to look back at your writing as an objective
observer and see how far your motivation has taken you.
A Bit of Work and a Plan—Motivation
Exercises
Where's your passion?
When have you felt driven t achieve something? What was
the driving force? What passion or purpose do you have that
makes your mundane things worth doing?
Take some time to write
down a few overall objectives for the year in various areas
of your life (work, family, finances, etc.).
Tip: When writing
your goals, decide what your big passions are and connect
those to the mundane parts of your life. You might not be
passionate about filiing expense reports or being pleasant
with the rudest of customers, but doing those things with
finesse might provide you with the financial means to
participate in the things you're passionate about. By
thinking of your passion when at your job, you'll motivate
yourself toward excellence.
Sprints—What
are you going to do for the next 90 days?
Take each goal and break it down into tasks that you can
accomplish over the next 90 days. You achieve these 90-day
goals in order to move toward your objectives.
If you only look at the
long-term picture, it's easy to fall into the trap of being
overwhelmed, but by creating sprints, you'll be able to keep
up your momentum.
Build Your Plan
Take the tasks you've outlined and put them into a
calendar of the next 90 days. Every morning, clear out a few
minutes of your time to review your goals and identify
action steps that you can take during that day. Keep track
of the tasks you accomplish every day, and remember to
reward yourself along the way.
The Motivation Lifestyle
Do an intake inventory of what you read, listen to, and
watch. Can you think of otehr resources for more positive
input?
Keep a journal in order to
track your progress. Make a habit of reflecting on each day
by writing the following:
- What you did
- How you felt
- What you thought
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